Navigating the Confusion of Self-Discovery

Because Being a Couch Potato Won't Cut It

Ever feel like you're stuck in the Groundhog Day of good intentions? Welcome to the perplexing journey of self-discovery, where finding yourself is as elusive as a cat deciding to follow commands. Let's be real – being a good person is so last season. It's time to level up, and no, we're not talking about your Candy Crush skills.

In the immortal words of Harvey Specter, 'I'm not about caring, I'm about winning’. So, in a world where dreams of a car, a mansion, and all those fancy things are thrown around like confetti at a mediocre party, it's high time we address the elephant in the room. Dreaming is great, but last time I checked, dreaming alone doesn't pay the bills. So, how about we put on our big boy/girl pants and make a plan? Shocking, I know.

Now, let's talk about the 's' word – selfishness. Society might frown upon it, but newsflash: the only company you're stuck with for a lifetime is you. So, be a little selfish, and no, it won't get you on Santa's naughty list. It might actually be the key to unlocking your own version of success.

Perfection? Yeah, right. We're all a bit rough around the edges, and that's putting it mildly. But guess what? To become a diamond, you've got to walk through the dumpster fire of life. Enrolling in a course is cute, but if you think the certificate is the golden ticket, you're in for a reality check. You've got to work so hard that even your coffee needs a coffee break.

Morning choices – they sound so profound until you realize it's just deciding whether to hit the snooze button or not. But seriously, the choices you make in the a.m. can make or break your day. So, what's it going to be? Tear-stained pillows or conquering the world? Tough call, huh?

Life's a soap opera, but you don't have to audition for a role. Instead of drowning in the melodrama, how about we learn to laugh at it? Spoiler alert: life will throw curveballs, and you're going to need a wicked sense of humor to survive. Trust me, it's more effective than a suit of armor.

Tomorrow might not come – a cheery thought to kickstart your existential crisis. But seriously, what's your endgame? Lazing around like a cat in a sunbeam or making the most out of every moment? It's not rocket science, but it's also not binge-watching your favorite show for the umpteenth time.

Controlling your brain is like controlling the TV remote – a power move. Ever heard that saying about controlling your stomach and controlling your brain? Yeah, it's a thing. So, maybe put down that second tub of ice cream and reclaim your brain from its rebellious state.

Understanding yourself before playing Sherlock with others is the name of the game. Silence isn't just the absence of noise; it's a masterclass in self-awareness. Try it sometime – no theatrics, just you, your thoughts, and maybe a snack because let's be honest, snacks make everything better.

Phones get upgrades, and so should you. What's your well-being plan? What example are you setting? How do you want to be remembered – as a cardboard cutout or someone who made life their playground? Simple questions with not-so-simple answers.

And now, cue the sarcasm! I want to be remembered as a dedicated person. Someone who poured her heart at whatever she put her mind at. I want to be remembered as a person so strong that she never gave up. Someone who was conquering silence. Who would go on days without talking and still be content. She had a constantly budding pursuit towards spiritualism. She was a multi-tasker, a DIY queen.

Yes, that's me, and that's how I want to be remembered. It's not self-loathing; it's me. This is me, a new-found me. I am made of my experiences and my choices. and I wouldn't have it any other way. I chose to be strong because it was easier to be weak, and I don't like easy.

So, in case you're wondering, have I figured out how I want to be remembered? Yes, I have. And it's a masterpiece in progress.

 

Thank You for Reading

Lots of Love

Priyanka Ashokanand